I'll start with a stumble. As you may recall me mentioning, I stopped gnawing on my nails and was doing dandily with it. Sadness and uncertainty stepped in and I'm not happy to be typing of how I've fumbled (smacking my hands). Blue I've beaten myself over it but today I will stop the self sternness and attempt anew. You might already be aware of how hard and unforgiving I can be, with myself but tripping and trying again is something I'm gaining strength in. Okay, enough of all that, on to the sunnier say so's. Mother's Day this year was spent much the same way as several others that have passed. Many of us gathered at the nursing home to be with our Memeness. Though she has seen better days, I'm good and grateful that we were able to share another one with her. She slept most of the time but we were all pleased to see her eyes open a few times. Hubby Bub was able to snap a quick shot and I'll add it at the end of this entry. Though it's not a perfect picture of her, I'm peacock proud to be her Granddaughter and enjoy sharing pictures of the loved ones in my life. Our gentle and generous Aunt purchased food for everyone and we enjoyed a fine feast, chicken, potato salad, dinner rolls coleslaw and cookies were all consumed and it was a gift to be granted a meal that I didn't have to make. Thank you Auntie Sword game, my Husband insists our Aidn had five pieces!. I sure enjoyed it and the left overs were just as delicious.
After leaving the nursing home, on we went to my Mothers house. My Sister was going to make the drive for Mother's Day this year but decided to stay home and extend efforts for upcoming events. She is always living life like a shiny spinning top and no one can stop her, secretly, I hope she never slows down. Ever organized and living life in a very lively way. Anyway, as always, she is missed when we gather and she isn't present. We stopped in for a brief visit to give my Mom her gift from the boys and I knew she would love it. Last month while we were out with her, she spotted a beautifully coloured bowl but didn't end up buying it as her Husband felt the cost was to much for such an item. I'd like to add that he bought a blue fish and all the furnishings for it, that same day. She did give him grief when he mentioned his desire in buying the little blue gilled guy and brought up the bowl, again. I laughed knowing that I bought the bowl for her with thoughts of Mother's Day in mind. We didn't stay long but seeing her smile and go on about her gift was sweet enough for me. The gifts I received from our Son's were the best parts of my day. My youngest made me a card and gave me a cup coaster that his teacher knitted for each classmate. He was so excited and even hid it up in his room until the big day, seeing his excitement is always the most excellent, for me. Our oldest Son also extended effort and he was very thoughtful and unique in his gift. I absolutely love grape ice cream and there is a store close to where we live that sells some of the best. When I opened his gift I thought he had purchased this pail of ice cream from there. Nope, he did not. He made it, well, sort of. He started with vanilla ice cream and added grape flavoring. I am still savoring each spoonful but have had only a small amount each day since he gave it to me. If I devour it all in a weeks time, I'll be an even bigger beach ball before Summer even starts. Such simple yet superb surprises!, thank you boys, I love them!
It's been busy around here and this week we were able to make the trip to be with my Nephew for his thirteenth birthday, the big boy that towers over six foot tall man is now a teenager!. I can't believe how my Sister and I are Mothers of a teen. So far I don't have many complaints and I'm certain she doesn't either. My Sister's Son is a smart, sharing Sir and I'm certain he will be a marvelous man in coming years. His party took place at a local hotel that boasts of botanical beauty throughout the pool area and has a waterfall and water slide for aquatic enjoyment. We've being to this place a few times before and always enjoy going back. As usual, my Sister made sure that everyone had a good time and the efforts she puts into everything she does, always amazes me. We hadn't told our children that we were going and it was a surprise when they came in from school on Tuesday. It's hard to surprise our kids because one of em always hears something from someone but this time we were able to pull it off and that was a gift in itself. Many of my Nephews closest friends were there and it was a real pleasure seeing them all together enjoying everything the day had to offer. Our Mother and Step-Father were also there and I'm so glad we could be together for the celebration. Thank you for inviting us to join you, we had a great time and can't wait to see you again, soon.
Back to the blog title....
Today is the birthday of a fantastic friend. We had plans of celebrating at her house but her schedule has changed and we'll have to do it at a later date. I couldn't accept not giving her a gift today because we can't be together so I decided to offer her up this entry until I can spoil her right and proper, in person. This woman is very special to me. We met nearly two decades ago and enjoyed many a fine moment. Then we lost touch and have only reconnected in the last few years. She's helped me many times, like when I had my surgery and she stayed with the kids. Always extending efforts for others. She's someone I can count on to share smiles, selflessness and super sized servings of belly shakes!. Like my Sister, she has such a sunny way of seeing life and she's another one I'd like to clone for this planet we play on. Jenny, you know how much you mean to me and I hope in the days to come I can express it even further with edible efforts, good company and many helping hands to assist you in work or woes. We love you and hope that this birthday is your best one ever!. Take a bow lady, you amaze and are adored by so many, I raise my mug to you, now and look forward to us spending more time together this Summer. The last two have been super and we all enjoy every visit with you, your Hubby Bub and the pack of pooches. It's May 2-4 weekend woman, I hope it's wonderful for you! Happy Birthday to one of my finest friends!
Well that looks long enough for me and I'm sure your sight seer's will agree, thanks for reading whats in the mind grounds and may well health and happiness be ours, today.
Your blog is always so much fun to read!
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